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Try side to side, which is a slightly more energized and interesting version of spooning. Another variation is for the [vagina-owner] to lie all the way back onto the edge of the bed while [the penis-owner] enters—this can be a little easier on your neck. This is similar to crab, except the bottom partner is sitting up, leaning against a headboard, wall, or supporting themselves with their arms, while the top partner thrusts up and down while facing them.
The cross is one of the great under-appreciated, relatively easy, and super-pleasurable sex positions. Share Facebook Pinterest Twitter Tumblr. What's hot. Jenny Yuen. Tags: new sex positions sex advice sex positions sex tips tricky. Facebook Pinterest Twitter Tumblr Instagram. Facebook Pinterest Twitter. Even get him to take a look at the sex positions section for some ideas.
Hi Jackline, Emm…interesting question. I guess it depends on a person to person basis. Im really skinny and very flexible, unlike my boyfriend whos kinda chubby, what are the best positions to do so I dont get crushed but dont do all the work also?? You may also be interested in trying out some of the girl on top positions too, although these require a bit more work from you.
This is possible. I have just changed hosts, so it may have gotten lost during the migration process. God bless you Sean.. My boyfriend and I are both still virgins. Do you have any tips for me or actually for us like what position we can use? Do you have any tips please? The most important thing is communicating this to your man, so that in the moment he is aware that he may be hurting you. If you are quite tight, then one thing you should definitely use is some lube.
This will help to alleviate any potential pain. Try talking to her about it to find out the root cause of the problem. But the best option is to have her go see a doctor about it. Heyy Sean, me again, i gave my bf head last night and could not make him.. Was that a lame excuse or can that really happen?? Some guys are more sensitive compared to others, so some find it easier to orgasm than others.
So try to focus more on both having a good time and enjoying yourselves as opposed to getting to the end. This all sounds like a very difficult and complicated situation. As for the actual sex, you need to understand that it truly is a 2 way street. He needs to meet your needs too. He just wants you to ride him! So get on that horse!! Go get sexy lingerie, a new perfume, loose wavy curls—and show him how fuckin hot you are!
My partner and I have sex all the time, but we struggle to both reach our climax unless we do oral. Do you have any positions that may help get him to cum inside without help of a hand job or oral? A great way to stimulate the top side of the end of his shaft is to get into the spooning position with him.
But instead of entering you, he can thrust along the outside of your vagina which will stimulate the top side of his entire shaft. This feels even better when you are wet or use a little lube. During actual penetrative sex, he will find the basset hound when he leans backwards or the g spot sniper position best for stimulating the top side of his shaft. For you, try the cowgirl position , but instead of bouncing up and down, try grinding on your man forwards and backwards so that you are rubbing your clitoris over his pubic bone.
Milking the prostate of a man also gets them off very quickly. And our sex life is still awesome. As said before by other people, communication is key when it comes to pleasing each other. Everyone is different when it comes to what they like, and not everyone likes to talk about sex.
Also, men LOVE a dominant woman. It blows their minds when you take charge. I act very flirty outside of the bedroom but get pretty shy when it comes to anything very sexual. Thanks for your question! Instead, try a few different positions and gauge his reaction when you are actually having sex. Thinking about how he may or may not feel about a particular position without actually trying it out will drive you insane! Bonbon kind of mentioned it, but what are the best positions for height differences?
Any suggestions? I would love to be able to give you 5 positions that will work perfectly for you. But the truth is that you need to experiment with different positions to find what works best for you. You could make it a game for you and your man, trying to work through each of the positions over the next few months. But besides that what is an easy yet fun position that will make is want to do it again and again.
And he is worried about crushing me but I can hold him for awhile. Please help I want to fuck him so badly. Honestly, I think that you should try out spooning or even good ole missionary. Let me know how you get on! And the school year is starting so there goes my free time. Even when you are super turned on, you may have trouble becoming wet. All you need to do is use some good lube. Just remember not to use oil based lube if you are using silicone rubber based condoms! I would love to get an orgasm while my boyfriend is on top.
I really want to boost his ego by having it while he is on top. What to do??? Hi Brenda, Thanks for your question. The last thing you want to do is put pressure on yourself! This can be especially hard, when you really want to though! Many women report that they find it easier to orgasm in a position like cowgirl because they can control how much clitoral stimulation they receive. If this sounds like you you need a good amount of clitoral stimulation to orgasm , then you may be interested in a man on top position like the coital alignment technique.
This is really interesting and more of it would not destroy but would keep our relationships up to a very good standard. Please keep on giving us more. Though our all room mates have enjoyed penis pleasure with their boyfriends who are our class mate, but in hostel we wants which type of positions is best for us when we play sex game with same genders. Thank you so much for making this you helped me and my boyfriend have sex for the first time and each time has been amazing.
We are trying all the positions because we are both new to sex and its been better every time. We recently tried doggy style which we first thought it was too animalistic but we did it today and it was the best sec ever. I had to squeeze a pillow so hard to keep from screaming it was amazing. Thank you again for making this wonderful place of sec knowledge. I love my husband a lot and want to get intimate with him.
My husband is slightly shorter than me. He often says that his dick is not that big to reach my ultimate point. Now, he first starts with foreplay,then starts fingering to make me orgasm and then we start intercourse. Plz advice. Bottom line: Just keep experimenting. Tell him that you want to try and discover what are the most pleasurable sex positions and techniques.
You can also try introducing sex toys into your sex life. Your best option is to talk to your doctor about safe sex positions when pregnant. Ok im a lil chubby and its hard for me to masterbate the way i want to but it all works out but my man is in good shape but we do just one position an im tired of it. It makes me not wanna have sex with him. But i be so horny i wanna jump on him.. Tell me what can i do for the both of us thanks. Hi Shannon, Honestly, I think the best thing is to just talk to your man and let him know how you feel about things.
Best, Sean. This is frustrating me we hardly have sex anymore because i find myself fighting to get wet but its just not happening. I need serious help. Your man is being a a bit of an idiot for getting in a sulk about it…. The most important thing to do is simply talk to him about it, so that he understands the situation. Again, to make him understand, you gotta talk to him about it. Instead, just try to talk to him about in a way that shows you are concerned and are not judging him, but do want to get it handled.
Hi I was wondering if you could tell me what kind of sex positions are good for when a couple wants to have sex in a car? Please and thank you. Honestly, it depends…on how big your car is, how big are small both of you guys are and how flexible you both are. I know in kamasutra the name of the sex position is the double decker but what do you call it? I may have missed it on your site. We seem perfect for each other.
Everything just works. He is very sexual and has been very vocal about it to me. I think about it all the time. I want to make him happy. What do I do? What are some good ways to ease into it without it being awkward? Those are just two questions, I have a boatload. The best thing to do is to talk to him so that he understands where you are coming from.
Great sex is all about great communication, not just being experienced. Let me know how it goes. What would you recommend for someone who is a little shorter in length? I am very very shy kind of person when it comes to being in bed. I never make the first move, and for some reason cannot feel comfortable if the lights are on naked.
I feel like I rarely ever do the work in bed and while I want to do something I feel like I simply cannot cross the barrier. I just feel too shy and nervous to ever do anything. I get flushed and shut down. Start small, very small and you will see how easy it is. Here are a few simple things you can start off doing. My boyfriend and I have had sex quite a bit now, but I never seem to be able to..
Its gotten to the point where we barely even try for me anymore because its almost embarrassing. Any tips at all? What positions would be good for this so I can give him an experience to remember? Try starting with a blow job using the Cinema position.
After that you may want to try the Mastery sex position. He could be a little nervous or even stressed. Another reason could be due to watching too much porn, which often has a desensitizing effect. First up is a simple one which you can do by lying on your back ready for the missionary position. However, rather than spreading your legs — lit them up ad put your feet on your partner chest gently and let him rest on your soles.
It kind of looks like you are squatting on his chest sideways if you are doing it right. You are not going to be able to kiss and touch as much in this position but it does give other benefits. The position will increase how tight your vagina feels by virtue of the position, but also it engages the vaginal muscles due to the pressure making them squeeze tighter. This is from the pressure on your feet that runs down your legs, cum and all your pelvic area.
Extra hard but tighter version: if to close you ankles as close to your thighs as you can to feel a greater squeeze! But do u know. Any secrets on how to keep him from Cummings before me? Hi im vikki frm uk. You are so helpful like Mia said. Hey Sean, i havent really done that much with my boyfriend and im not super comfortable with my body. The easiest way to introduce new things into the bedroom is to just try variations of what you already do with him.
Then try variations of these new things. And on and on. Another way is to mention that you want to try something you saw online. Hi Sean, I was wondering, for some of these positions one of the partners has to take initiative to bend over or lead them to a certain spot on the house. If you do this before talking to them about it will it be awkward or will your man like it? Avoiding awkwardness is key here. The best way to approach it is to initiate foreplay when you are already on the sofa. So start touching him, grabbing him and kissing him when you are already on the sofa together.
Then it makes it incredibly easy to just transition to having sex with him and then start using the Burning Man. OK I need to spice up my sex life its the same thing every time. I had a kid a year ago and my back is horrible so please if you have any position that I should try let me know. Hey Sean, I got a tiny question here. Sex was great so far, but I was wondering… What positions would you recommend for us, keeping in mind this big difference between our weights?
I just love it! Try these positions. They are great for anal sex, but also work really well for doggystyle. The other bit of advice is to make sure you keep trying new positions and techniques with your GF. As you do, make sure to keep note of what you enjoy and try out variations of that. What are the best positions for intercourse when the man is not well endowed. Also, how can I convince him to used enlarging sleeves, etc. Try the Anvil or Launch Pad positions.
My boyfriend and I want to try sex in our car, but I have no idea what to do! Hmmm…you could try the sofa spooning position that I explain here or something like backseat driver that I explain here.
Hi Sean, I really need help. My boyfriend and I want to add more positions in our sex life. We only do some basic missionary positions and cowgirl. Any ideas or suggestions? You really need to go through each of the positions above and start experimenting.
Can anyone help me.. Try some of these masturbation techniques and these tips on reaching orgasm, they should help you get closer. I am wondering what are some of the best positions for those who are a little on the thicker side of the globe..
Let me know what you guys most enjoy! Hey me and my husband been married 28 years together 30 years. He has been my only lover. These last few years he has work a lot out of state. In witch has only made our sex life better. We now have phone sex, you name we have try it.
So I really just need a bit of adive. We started playing around with pretty large dildos well this mess up my vigjina you no stretch it out where it will get to louse for him to still enjoy. Also we will be once again soon living together again. Advice how to keep this great sex going that we how have.
My boyfriend and I play a sort of sex game with this list. He or I pick a number between 1 and 11 for each of these sections and then pick a number from that section. Thank you. I wanna do this all but i got a little situation and maybe you could help me?
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I promised him sex when I turned legal age, which was last June. I really wanna do it with him but what happened made me feel neglected. I wanna do this not just to please him but for me too. I wanna know how far I could go. I appreciate the concern but it somehow deflates my self esteem thinking i cant give him what he wants. Im very conservative and this is one of the topics I felt uncomfortable talking. Please help. How could I convince him to have sex with me without sounding very sex-craze maniac?
Do you know any position we could do that might help me avoid or at least lessen the pain? My wife does not like to give me a bj though I like it very much.
What can I do sothat she agrees to do so? Do you eat her out?? Hi My Bf and l enjoy great sex together. But l want spice things up and blow his mind away as he is getting comfortable with our usual routine.
Though recently he gets frustrated on the fact that his penis slips out of me during sex which l believe is affecting him to hold erection as before. And is affecting our sex life. What can I do to help him by getting our sex activities back and even better than before. And which positions would be great to help him from not slipping out as well as to relax. I need to show him some wow factor as he is the only man l want to be with.
Michelle, you will find a whole host of great sex tips in the Bad Girls Bible newsletter here. It would be nice to get more of this for same sex couples.. I myself am a lesbian and me and my partner enjoy what we do now but would love more things to try.
Wonderful stuff! My wife though is always saying it hurts. Like if I go too hard, deep, really expose her or whatever.
It was soooo hot! Take it from a females perspective, not all women like anal sex. So where she may not like it anal, you do. Give it a try, using plenty of lube, have her slide her finger slowly into your anus and see what pops up. Any advice for them? If she is having trouble orgasming during sex, then she should first make sure she can orgasm on her own during masturbation.
The same goes for any position you try with him. I need some help, long story will try to keep it as short as possible. My husband, which I love with all my heart, of 3 years and been toghter for 13 years says I have no sex drive and show no intrest in sex.
I agree to a certain point. I am tired, do all the house work myself have an full time job and a little 2 year old. He wants to explore outside our marrige with other people, I cannot do that my believes stops me, but he doesnt care does it alone 4 to 5 times a month and pays for it as well. I do explore, toys, different positions but cannot let another touch me, he doesnt except no for an answer.
I agree that I am not always in the mood, I feel that I dont get enough love and attention and feel that I am not good enough for him any more al though he tells me I am the only one he love the other is just sex and only for fun, I dont belief it. Sounds like a pretty frustrating situation to be in. I think the best thing is to talk to your man about it so he understands exactly why this is bothering you so much and possibly even consider therapy.
Marriages are partnerships.